- Understand that while our perception is our reality, our perception is not FACT. Many factors influence our reasoning: past experiences, attitudes, biases, what we notice, what we ignore… any NUMBER of things can cloud our perception and influence how we feel and react. In any given situation, there is always more than meets the eye, and GOD is the only One who sees and knows the full TRUE picture.
- Realize that the longer the struggle, the harder it can be to stay focused. Because our enemy wants to steal our joy and peace and confidence (John 10:10), we need to be careful about what we let fill our minds (2 Cor 10:5). We live in an age with so many good Christian resources – books, music, tv, movies, Bible studies, counseling, worship opportunities… One of the best ways I’ve found to stay focused is to keep praise music playing in my house. Invariably a song will get stuck in my head and I’ll end up singing it all day long. While that may irritate my family, it inspires me! BTW I’ve learned to hum quietly while I’m around them and save the vocals for when I’m alone ;)
- Last but not least, DON’T WALK AWAY FROM GOD!! That will grieve His Spirit and cause the enemy to dance, so determine to grieve the enemy and let God dance!! Stick with (or find!) a group of trustworthy Christian friends who will pray for you and walk you thru the struggle!! Keep going to church!! Guard your time in the Word!! Confess your doubts and fears to Him and ask Him to strengthen you. And when He does, tell of all His deeds.
Monday, October 26, 2009
Psalm 73
Monday, October 19, 2009
Psalm 56
What do you fear? That's an easy one for me – snakes and rodents. I know they are part of God’s creation and important in the food chain but those are two links I can do without, thankyouverymuch. But deeper than personal phobias, we fear things like losing our job, losing family members, national security, the future, ungodly leaders, the unknown, health problems, financial woes, CHANGE… the list is potentially endless!
One of the things we discussed was how fear affects us. It is interesting to study our physiological response to fear: increased heart rate and respiration, release of adrenaline, changes in blood circulation, etc. The “fight or flight” response is an amazing thing God wired in us, but beyond the initial bodily reaction, the way we respond to fear speaks volumes about our faith.
It’s perfectly normal to be emotionally-shaken when the storms of life come crashing down on us, but we need to remember that we don’t face them alone. When a violent storm arose on the Sea of Galilee, Jesus’ disciples did what we often do – they managed on their own until things got out of control, then they looked for Jesus. Imagine their disbelief when they found Him ASLEEP in the stern! The anxious disciples woke up the snoozing Savior and said, “Teacher, don’t you care if we drown?” (Mark 4:38). Interesting that they didn’t ask him to help reef the sails or bail water, they asked if He cared about their situation. It’s easy for us to fall into that same trap of wrong-thinking, “God, don’t You CARE that I’ve got cancer? Don’t You CARE that I lost my job? Don’t You CARE that…”
Feelings and emotions are powerful and they have the potential to send us spiraling into a pit of despair, but we can have command over them by the power of God’s SPOKEN Word. I’ve collected scripture over the years that address specific situations and when I begin to feel strangled by my emotions, I confess “This is what I FEEL (fear, anger, doubt, despair…) but this is what I KNOW (insert applicable verse here!)” and I continue on, reciting His attributes: goodness, faithfulness, compassion, love, grace, mercy; He is all-knowing, all-powerful, ever-present… Psalm 22:3 tells us that God inhabits the praises of His people, so when we open our mouths to declare His praise, we open the door for His presence to wash over us with a peace that is incomprehensible.
Something else that I’ve found helpful is to ask myself, “What is the WORST thing that can happen to me?” and then remember that regardless of what happens and where I end up, God will BE THERE! That path may be steep and rocky and treacherous, but He will have walked EVERY STEP of that path with me and will have a PLAN for me THERE! And His plans are designed for our good and for His glory so FEAR NOT, little flock!!
Monday, October 12, 2009
Psalm 51
Whatever his thoughts, David was eventually slapped in the face with the reality that what he had done was a slap in the face of his God, who had graciously blessed him with EVERYTHING he had. 2 Samuel 11-12 records the entire account, but several things stand out to me in that passage: "The thing David had done DISPLEASED the Lord... If all [the kingdom] had been too little, [God] would have given you more. Why did you despise the word of the Lord by doing what is evil in His eyes?"
These words rang in David's ears and penetrated his heart, and his response to his colossal mess was Psalm 51. Listen to the words he uses as he remembers God's attributes: unfailing love, great compassion, right, justified, desires truth, teaches wisdom, saves, cleans, purifies, restores, doesn't delight in sacrifices or take pleasure in burnt offerings. David knew that there was no sacrificial provision for adultery or murder. What did the Law demand for those two sins? Death. No lambs or doves or bulls... David deserved to die and he cried out to God with a broken heart and spirit.
These are the words David used to acknowledge what he had done: sin, transgression, evil, iniquity. He didn't make excuses or try to sugar-coat it, he saw it for what it was. His confession continued with phrases like "I know my transgressions... My sin is always before me... I have sinned against You... I have done evil in Your sight..."
Then David asked God to forgive him, and boldly asked God to bless him and restore him. And God, in His rich mercy and infinite grace, answered David's prayer. But his sin wasn't without consequences, and it set the wheels in motion for calamity in his family and eventually for the entire nation of Israel. Sin ALWAYS has consequences.
Thank God that He delights in restoring His children after they've stumbled, but isn't it worth considering how He might delight in not HAVING to always restore us? As we grow in Christlikeness, shouldn't we be learning some skills about AVOIDING the stumble? Wouldn't THAT delight Him as well??
This psalm deals with David's adultery and murder, but we can apply it to ANY sin. For example, stealing. If someone is tempted to embezzle from their company, what is the underlying desire? Is it wanting more money to buy more stuff (greed - bad) or is it wanting the money to pay overdue medical bills (providing for their family - good)? Is the underlying desire evil or godly, and how do we deal with that? Or better yet, how do we let God deal WITH US in that area? We will always face temptation of SOME kind, but let's ask God to examine us and show us the good, the bad, and the ugly parts of ourselves so we can do what is right and avoid getting into a colossal mess of our own.
"Create in me a pure heart... renew a steadfast spirit within me... grant me a willing spirit to sustain me." God answered David's prayer and He will answer ours. With a pure heart we can see and discern our true desires, with a steadfast spirit we can recognize and stand firm against temptation, and with a willing spirit we can DESIRE to do what is right. Now wouldn't THAT please our Lord?
Thanks to Adean for this fabulous Donnie McClurkin link:
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Thoughts on Psalm 23
“The Lord is my Shepherd…” What familiar and comforting words!
I find some Psalms are a challenge to teach because so many of them have unnamed authors and were written at unknown times. While we don’t know the time that Psalm 23 was written, we do know it was a psalm of David and it’s his description of the Lord as his Guide. This psalm of comfort and assurance is commonly heard at funerals, but it’s a great daily reminder that our Lord is always near and caring for us.
Psalm 23 is so familiar that it's easy to overlook something profound: It is one of the few passages in scripture where we can see each of the Old Testament names for God. We see Jehovah Jireh (Provider), Jehovah Mekaddiskem (Sanctifier), Jehovah Nissi (Banner), Jehovah Rapha (Healer), Jehovah Rohi (Shepherd), Jehovah Sabaoth (Lord of Hosts), Jehovah Shalom (Peace), Jehovah Shammah (Companion), and Jehovah Tsidkenu (Righteousness). Some are obvious, others require some pondering, but if you look carefully and thoughtfully you’ll see they’re ALL there.
Sheep are curious creatures. Once you study them and their characteristics, it’s easy to see why Jesus compared us to them. Sheep are helpless, defenseless, easily distracted, prone to wander, don’t have keen vision, they are easily frightened in new situations (especially the dark), and when they are injured they often roll over on their backs and can’t get up!
Philip Keller’s book “A Shepherd Looks at Psalm 23” is a wonderful book that describes the relationship between the shepherd and his sheep. Good shepherds were totally devoted to the care of their flock because the sheep were so highly valued. They were the preferred animal of sacrifice, they were a sign of wealth, they were a source of milk and their wool brought a considerable profit. Because the sheep were so special the shepherd gave them individual names, and the sound of the shepherd speaking gave them a sense of comfort and well-being. The tender voice and gentle touch of the good shepherd was all that was needed to bring calm and contentment to an agitated sheep.
Some notable Old Testament shepherds included David, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob and his 12 sons, as well as Moses; but the task of shepherding flocks was one of the lowliest of all jobs. It was hard work that required round-the-clock attention, they were often in danger, their accommodations were simple & sparse, and they were often dirty and smelly. Isn’t it interesting that Jesus, Who embodies the fullness of our holy and eternal and unimaginable God, is referred to as a lowly shepherd? It’s my personal opinion that it has more to do with us being like sheep than it does Him being like a Shepherd!
A good shepherd cares for his flock in a variety of ways: he provides a safe & comfortable place to rest, he keeps the sheep healthy and free from parasites and disease, and he makes sure they have plenty to eat and drink. He is faithful to examine the sheep to determine their needs, and then he does what is necessary to keep them healthy and well. Jesus cares for us in the same way: He examines us and then does what is necessary to keep us growing in Him.
Perpetually wayward sheep are a problem for a shepherd, and it's believed that a shepherd will wrap the sheep and draw it close to him so he can break it's leg. The shepherd then carries the sheep on his shoulders until it heals. During that time the sheep learns to recognize the shepherd's voice and through his gentle care grows to trust him and then obey him. The shepherd knows this relationship can't happen any other way, so I'm guessing it's a kind of ovine 'tough love.'
Hopefully we aren't so stubborn we need to have our legs broken, but sometimes He allows circumstances in our lives so we can adjust our focus to see ONLY Him. Sometimes He needs to “fleece” us to reveal what’s beneath the surface or to remove the things in life that weigh us down. Sometimes He takes us through a valley to protect us from something we can't see. Sometimes He disciplines us with His rod and sometimes He rescues us with His staff, but He ALWAYS has our well-being in mind and is ALWAYS working in our lives to draw us closer to Him. His love for His followers is a testimony to an unbelieving world, and His “Name’s sake” or His reputation is proven in the way He cares for us. It's important to remember that our response to Him during our trials is also a testimony to the world.
It’s interesting to note that in the Old Testament the sheep died as a sacrifice for the shepherd. In the New Testament the Shepherd died as a sacrifice for His sheep and then gave us His Spirit to live within us and give us comfort in any circumstance. I love the outline that Canadian evangelist J.R. Littleproud gave this psalm:
The Secret of a Happy –
Life: every need supplied
Death: every fear removed
Eternity: every desire fulfilled
But these promises are reserved for those who follow Jesus and boldly say, “The Lord is MY Shepherd.” Can you?